Mentor of the Month: Abby

Our February Mentor of the month is Abby T.! Having moved around a lot growing up, and as an adopted only child, Abby always cherished any opportunity to feel a part of something and to build connection. She was inspired to become a mentor with Tuesday’s Children because of the incredible mentors she’s had in her life—teachers, adults, and peers—who helped shape who she is today. She wanted to pay that forward by offering guidance and being a trusted, supportive resource for someone else.

“To me, mentoring is a chance to make a meaningful difference in someone’s life, helping them build confidence, reach their potential, and know they have someone they can truly count on,” says Abby.

Abby has been mentoring Analeigh for over 6 years! She says, “The most rewarding part has been watching Analeigh grow from a little girl into a teenager. Seeing her achieve a goal she worked so hard for was incredible—she got into her dream high school and is doing so well, earning great grades. I love watching her grow, challenge herself, form her own opinions, and become someone others naturally enjoy being around.”

Some of her favorite memories with Analeigh over the years include trips to the Museum of Ice Cream, the Big Apple Circus, ice skating together, and sharing their favorite hibachi meals.

Abby’s advice to new mentors is to show up consistently, even in small moments, because presence matters more than perfection. Abby believes that, “Trust is built in small moments, so be patient and reliable. Lead with kindness, listen well, and be someone they genuinely enjoy being around. When they feel safe and valued with you, the relationship can truly grow.”

Outside of mentoring, Abby loves spending time with my friends and exploring new restaurants in New York City. She enjoys biking (specifically Citibike!), barre classes, traveling, and watching sports with her fiancé. Occasionally, she likes to bring out her crafty side—one of the fun activities she and Analeigh did together was painting at Color Me Mine. We’re deeply grateful for the joy, commitment, and care that Abby brings to her mentoring relationship and we’re proud to recognize her as this month’s Mentor of the Month.